Like to say hello and not really sure what to do or say. Little about myself im 44 married for 25 years this year been sober for 4 years now.I am stumbling alittle bit and like to get different thoughts. I gave up drinking (beer guy) after a blow out fight with my wife and she really told me straight out hold nothing back!!!!!! And i am greatful and love her for doing so i want to make that clear! Now for the last 3 years she has taken up casual drinking and increasingly doing so behind my back. Not at all abusing alcohol! I get it i drank for years! But i gave it up to save our marrige at her demand cold turkey havent cracked one in for years. Doesnt that count for something? Superbowl night she and her sister was going to a superbowl party so i stayed home. They were going to a friends or maybe a cousins party. Next morning there are bar mugs and tee shirts on the counter. i asked her and she very softly said they went to a sports bar instead...... breathe mints to boot so am i thinking that this isnt the best support? And without starting a fight how do i approach her about this? Or let it go? Ladys chime in i dont mind honesty!
Day 5 has not been bad. I know I’m a LONG way off, but for some of you that have some months and years under your belt- how long before you stop thinking about it? I spent so long planning on where to get it, where to hide it, how to pitch the bottles etc.Just wondering. And thanks for the supporting comments. It might be silly but it helps.
Hi all. I have a question for the pros here. I’ve been sober for over nine months now. Feel great. I love my sobriety. It’s become the biggest building block in forming myself into a better man. I live a very healthy life. Spirit is getting stronger daily. I don’t think about drinking at all. Am I a lucky one who was able to flip that swith for good in my brain? I understand that I have...