I know his support is important, but you still have to do what is best for your sobriety. Maybe he doesn't see it as an active way to stop drinking. Just focus on the fact that we are all former alcoholics and we understand where you've been. You will find great advice and support here.

Melanye

Hey, as long as you are enthusiastic, that comes first, and we're enthusiastic with you. I got sober and not only wasn't my wife enthusiastic, we split up, so one never knows, does one. Anyhoo, welcome.

It's hard for people to understand this if they're not going through it. People who are not at the breaking point or are not abusers think you can "magically" quit. In reality, it helps to communicate with others who have the same problem.

Feel free to pitch in by responding to posts and do some reading of things posted by other people. YOu'll also notice there are some "groups". They are sub-groups that are part of this forum.
Anyway, stick around.