Alcoholism Support Group
Alcoholism is the continued consumption of alcoholic beverages, even when it is negatively affecting your health, work, relationships and life. If you think alcohol is causing you to lose control, it's time to seek help. Our group is a safe place to vent, check in, get back up if you fall, and reach sobriety.

You might be interested to know that many patients with terminal diseases spend quite a bit of time In denial. I am one of them. Tis best to learn of the subject you wish to speak about...
Hugs,
Dennis
That's a big questions and I'll wager there will be lots of lively discussion about it here.
Alcoholics Anonymous and most alcohol treatment centers in the U.S. use the *disease model* to diagnose and treat alcoholism.
I believe that it is less ambiguous say that alcoholism is an addiction; an illness that affects both the mind and the body.
If I were in denial about being an alcoholic, the fact that alcohol is treated like a disease does not change my responsibility to myself nor to my loved ones. I owe it to myself and my family to take care of myself, just as I would for any other physical or behavior health issue where my denial was causing harm.
Addictive alcoholic type drinking can cause one to become physically addicted. We've come a long way since the Belladonna treatment of the 1930s. We've become very good at treating this part.
Further, recent scientific breakthroughs have begun to find drug therapies that help immensely with the phenomena of craving that leads credence to the idea that harmful alcoholic type drinking is a mental condition.
For example, many of us suffering from mental conditions stop taking necessary treatments, because we don't like the side effects, the bland new reality and/or felt "more alive" untreated...HMMMM
Billy
http://www.baldwinresearch.com/alcoholism.cfm
http://ncadd.org/about-ncadd/testimonials-from-the-media/499-what-the-alcoholic-owes-to-marty-mann
http://www.the-scientist.com/?articles.view/articleNo/32196/title/The-DSM-5-Alcohol-Debate/
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XQ_RZE__kJI
From there it is my choice to get the help I need from any source possible. Basically, there is no disease in the parking lot doing pushups.
There is a lot of debate about whether or not alcoholism is an illness/disease but does the label really matter?
Alcoholism affects the mind and body of an alcoholic and there is a strong case for calling it a disease or an illness. The mental part is an obsession that drives the alcoholic to take the first drink and the physical part is an abnormal reaction to alcohol that develops in the body. An alcoholic is not the same in body and mind as a normal person, where alcohol is concerned.
Personally, I prefer to call alcoholism a condition but that is only my personal choice. Regardless of what you call it, there are solutions to the problem. You are in danger of getting tied up in controversial debates about various aspects of the approach to alcoholism and this is understandable as you try to come to terms with your husbands drinking. What I would urge you to do is to step back from the debating and concentrate on a solution. You may or may not be able to help your husband but at the very least you can learn how to look after your own welfare and wellbeing.
The link below will give you good information about how alcoholism affects the mind and body of an alcoholic and about one possible solution to the problem.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5pVBDQPC2XQ
In the context of family members it is well to remember that there is only so much we can do to help them stop drinking. The final choice to seek out help lies with them. There is a dose of powerlessness for the non-alcoholic over a loved one's drinking. Seeing how others dealt with the situation can help you make the changes in your that fit best for you.
My father in law was in deep denial over his alcoholism *and* his terminal cancer. In the end, the former sped up the later.
I am an alcoholic. Is it a disease? I don't know, and I don't care. I know I can't drink today. And that's what keeps my life moving forward in a positive, productive and joyful way.