Thank you for reading my post, I appreciate any feedback I can get about this problem. It may not be a problem to some people but I have a hard time reading people's intentions, and I don't trust people for the most part. I have had social anxiety my whole life but I function pretty well with it, I don't do well in groups, but I do okay one-on-one. The issue I have is a larger one, I will probably write the entire thing on my journal. What I am wondering, is about what happened just in the last few days, which is, between me and a friend H, who is on my facebook page and I have not actually seen her in person since high school, but we have been messaging each other for about 5 years. About that time she said we should get together for coffee some time. We made a plan. At the last minute, she cancelled. We were actually in the middle of moving to a new house about an hour away, so I didn't think much of it for 5 years. Recently she brought up the idea again that we should meet for coffee or something, and I said, okay. I do go down there often, to the city. It is kind of a big deal but not a bad drive. Again, we made a plan, and then, at the last minute, she cancelled. I blew it off, and then yesterday she said, let's get together, and I said, okay, what is your schedule like? She said she was busy with work but what was my schedule? I said I was flexible and actually had free time this week but didn't know what was happening on the weekend. She said, well, she didn't know what her schedule was because someone at her work quit and she might have to cover their shifts. I said, let me know. My sister also does this thing where she answers a question with a question, and it drives me nuts, I have to physically do calming techniques when I talk to her so I don't sound like I am going to blow up. Does this person want to get together with me or not? I don't want to waste any more of my time thinking about this. I have been jerked around before. I just want peace in my life. Thank you!