I feel like I have regressed. I have to be at work and am both scared to leave the house. I struggle with depression, also, and I am even struggling to get going this morning. ( I don't have a choice but I have to get in the shower ASAP) I could not leave the house at all yesterday due to social phobia but I can't make that "choice" or lack of choice today. I am literally praying to be able to function right now & I'm not really religious. I am more spiritual than religious but when agoraphobia hits me, I start to doubt the existence of anything in the spiritual or religious realm. I feel numb, depressed and just scared.
*This was such a negative post that I feel guilty but I have nobody else to turn to at this moment. The few friends I have are "normal" and although they are good people, they don't relate to agoraphobia or social phobia.

I have the same fear but because of my other disorders. But I'm getting through it, one day at a time, life does get better, you need to fill yourself up with confidence that yes you can do this :)
My main fear is leaving the house where I live in case something happens to me, triggered from previous events. I only have Agoraphobia and general anxiety, but not social anxiety.

Also, I don't know what's going on in your relationship, but from experience, what your boyfriend said isn't healthy, maybes he's scared you'll leave him, yet it's still emotional blackmail.