Hi new to this Group. Ive been seeing a physcologiest not diagnosed with anything but along the lines of obsessive thinking, self conciousness, anxiety and paranoia in social situations. So i have a cleft lip and palate and not sure if its got anything to do with it but do any of use get thoughts like im gonna kill them to harm to them or something when your really close to them or your thoughts are something to aviod speaking to them or holding down a conversation. example. Been for a gym session theres this guy i know we're in the changing rooms things like aww touch his cock or he thinks your ugly or get him with a huge surg of anxiety attach to it just to avoid spending time with him. or a girl i like as you can imagine what the worst type of things that could come into your mind while having a conversation with her. So my question is all this anxious thinking socially because im worried what they might think cos i have a cleft lip. is it type of ocd/obessive anxious thinking social anxiety paranoia that other r going to do something to me - the trigger seems to be social for me though. thats why im not leaning towards ocd. it doesnt really matter what it is but just wondering?