Hi and welcome to the group.
Bedwetting at your age is certainly not normal and it is good that you see the doctor.
However bedwetting is very common and there are a lot of treatments and aids available.
So don’t be afraid.
Good luck

Depending on what type of doctor you see, a general or a urologist. This a quick rundown for my case. I was in my early 40’s wetting pretty much every night for a few years, decided I needed to do something about and a little push from my wife I went to my general doctor who asked a few questions about my daily habits etc. believe me going to a doctor wearing a diaper and talking about the first time is nerve racking. biggest thing is to be totally honest no matter what they ask. They heard it all before. She did a blood test and a urinalysis and referred me to a urologist. That appointment they started off with a urinalysis before I saw the doctor. Then was just a general exam plus she did an ultrasound of my bladder. She then did a exam of the penis etc. also they will probably do a prostate exam. She started me on medication for overactive bladder. Also they’ll do a blood test as well but they check different parts than a regular doctor.
That was pretty much it for the first. The bigger tests if needed will come In the future but on as needed. There’s nothing to be scared about and nothing has been that bad for me. A lot of mine is oab along with some minor nerve damage for a back injury. I do still wet at night but not as much with the medication

Good luck and remember to be totally honest no matter how embarrassing you think it is. They’ve heard and seen it all even involving wearing a diaper.