It has been 3 years since my accident and it seems that each and every time I think I am starting to move on something yanks me back. Keep trying to move forward and someday you will come out the other side of that long tunnel. Jenn

well june will be a year since my accident, the guy never contacted me, really i don't know what i would say to him. he is not a liked man around here and i guess the cops have been after him for awhile, well i had a visit from the trooper that was at the scene and he said we are getting ready for the trial, me and my husband have to tesify and it will be the 1st time i will see this guy, i am not really sure what is going to happen???

bbarrow, I had to go to trial to get the man who hit me convicted. Try to stay strong, tell the truth and that is all you need to do. Try to believe in the justice system. The man that hit me had been in trouble with the police for more than 50 years. I had never laid eyes on him either until one of the court hearings. I was very nervous, but didn't find the monster I thought I would. I ended up having to go to trial 3 times to get him convicted. I wish you the best of luck.

It has been 4 1/2 years since my accident. I think the only way you can move on from being the victim is to fight back for yourself! I don't mean angry, vicious sort of way. I mean more like do the most you can do for yourself each and everyday! Even if that only means actually getting out of bed and showering that day.

I don't remember when I finally decided that the day that changed my life forever, can't rule my life forever. I live in pain 24/7 so that day & what has changed will never be forgotten!

If I don't fight for me, who will?

We all have bad thing happen to us of one kind or another through out our lives. Many harder to deal with than others. But the one thing that helps us to over come any difficult situation is our attitude. Our determination our desire to go on can be a real help to over coming difficult problems. We are all victoms of life problems big and small. We have to be our own best friend and make a pledge not to let these problems beat us down. We each have our own way of dealing with problems that cause us pain, fear,and anger. Sometimes it is just a matter of time that it take us to heal from what ever is causing our problem. Talking to people and seeking counceling being with friends and getting on with as normala life as you can. Do not, what ever you do just sit and feel sorry for your self or let you mind dwell on the bad things of the past. Be a positive person. hHelp someon with their problems. Get your mind off your problem as much as you can. We are only victoms if we let ourself be a victom. You can over come. You can move on. You can do it. Seek mecial help . Depression can be a bugger man so seek help for that . Ther are all sorts of medications that can help. I think another thang that can help a lot is forgiveness. Do not hold on to hate. Get rid of blame.Ask God for help.