Abstinence & Celibacy Support Group
The pressures of sex from peers, the media and culture can be overwhelming, but you are in total control of your body and celibacy is a choice that many are making. Find sanctuary with people who are choosing to abstain without fear of judgment.
I am a 47 year old male who has been married for 26 years. For the first ten years or so of our marriage I would litterally have to beg my beautiful wife for sex, my wife had little or no interest. Then we were having sex about once a week or so which had bacome enough for us both. Now, however, I have gotten older and sick,( PTSD and sivere COPD), and due to these things and the effects of medication my sex drive is almost non-existant. The strange thing is that as my wife has aged, ( more beautiful to me now than the day I met her and I am so in love), she wants sex almost constantly. I feel so sorry for her because I remember when the shoe was on the other foot and it was not fun. I am not vendictive in anyway and trully feel for her. I do not think she would ever leave me or cheat on me seeing this is just not her nature, but I don,t know how to help her. Is there anyone out there with good advice on what to do? Please bear in mind that we are Chritians with high moral values.
Since you are both people with high moral values, asking her how she would like to be satisfied by you may be out of the question but it is worth a shot.
Let me put it in a way that is tasteful, intercourse is not the only way to show you care about someone. Perhaps you could read upon it.
I think communication is very important here. As an aside, this is a group to help people who are not being sexual or want to be.
Hope this helps,
Wolf
Twice I asked him to get rid of a 'little helper'I had because I need my sexual fulfillment.
Presently he's at an AA men's meeting and being Wednesday it WAS 'hump' day'!
I must remember he was patient with me I was in a coma for a month after a horrible motorcycle accident 99.
Why not plan a surprise picnic or movie night...almost nightly and massage my husband's feet.it's a new type in Tennessee but were in my 60s now... I got a box ice cream for when he comes home.
Thanks for bein here I need support....I decided to drop my bulimia and anorexia classes I need these more.