Abstinence & Celibacy Support Group

The pressures of sex from peers, the media and culture can be overwhelming, but you are in total control of your body and celibacy is a choice that many are making. Find sanctuary with people who are choosing to abstain without fear of judgment.

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Ornello 02/14/2011

I have been celibate 35+ years, mostly out of spite.

Can anyone top that?

deleted_user 02/14/2011

Nope, but... I do have a question... spite? Against who?

Ornello 02/14/2011

uhmmm...women!

deleted_user 02/14/2011

Ouch, harsh.... but mostly against yourself it would seem. Shouldn't spite punish the people you dislike more than it punishes you?

Ornello 02/14/2011

LOL

You don't get it...

deleted_user 02/14/2011

I'm nearing 20 years, since I'm a virgin, but to not have sex due to spite seems a bit harsh on yourself.

Ornello 02/14/2011

Just a show of discipline...last time was around 1975. I actually didn't care for it that much.

deleted_user 02/15/2011

I have 40+ years but it's definitely not out of spite.

deleted_user 02/15/2011

Well if you didn't care for it, and didn't really like it, then go right ahead. As long as you aren't doing harm to yourself. I would hate to see someone bring themselves to some emotional harm for any reason.

deleted_user 02/25/2011

Hey if you dont like sex then you dont have it. There is nothing wrong with it unless your wife divorced you and have remained faithful to her then you are a much better person then I. And if it is all out of spite you were doing it for all the wrong reasons.

Ornello 02/25/2011

Why do you say that? I can have any damned reason I want to! LOL

deleted_user 03/07/2011

I'm sorry to say this, will probably seem offensive, but sounds to me like you need to get some NOW!! Its been too long and you are being hmmm I dont know what to call it, maybe calous? I just think you need to release some hormones LOL
ok shoot me!!! LOL
Peace and Love,
Allison

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