Cincere,

I would just move on. It does not appear as though she is interested in you, per se. Question, you say you like her but you do not like people that behave the way she does, what is that about?

If she is not replying to your texts or calling you back, count your losses and keep going.

One more thing, do not take anyone on expensive dates and expect anything in return. Simply take them on fun dates and save the expense for when you are either engaged or married. Spending money to impress never works, they either like you for you or they do not.

My two rubles' worth,
Wolf

Wolfiepa, What I mean is that I do not like girls who can't respond to texts or calls. I do like this girl in particular but she does not answer her phone when I call her. I do not expect anything from our dates but I do not want to continue taking her out if that is the only way I can get to know her. My gut tells me she is a nice person but not answering your phone and never replying back is a deal breaker.

Cincero,

My personal criteria for a nice person is someone who,has manners and it is considerate of others.

That being said if I call someone and they do not return my calls within a reasonable amount of time, I no longer consider them not even for friendship.If they cannot tell me on the phone they are not interested in me, then why wait?

Wolf

Point taken wolfiepa, she text me on thursday but stopped about three texts into the conversation. Thank you.

Here's what's going on in this situation:
#1) Never go EXPENSIVE on your 1st date (or 2nd), it makes you look desperate to impress -- and has the reverse effect on the girl;
#2) The "signal" of her not wanting any physical contact after the 2nd date was a message to YOU for RESPECT of her space. Did you get that?
#3) If she said you had her permission to TXT her -- then DON'T PHONE HER! Telephone talking is TOO intimate -- and she probably felt INVADED and DISRESPECTED by your pushy behavior.
- Telling you the phone needed to be re-charged was probably a polite excuse to hang-up and get some SPACE;
- She's not answering (and won't) because she thinks you're not respecting her SPACE and WISHES.
- If you "want to get to know" someone, RESPECT is #1!
- Listen to what they say and do as they ask: TXT means TXT -- not Call.
- Hope this helps. Its blunt, but it's also 4 months later.
- If you REALLY like this girl, take some lessons on dating and head this advice and next time you try to reach her, leave a respectful message with a bit of mystery -- to invoke her curiosity/interest.
- Good luck!

for the record a nice date doesn't require spending lots of money especially for someone you don't know,, its unfortunate she didn't have enough respect to say anything just to let you know where she stand but next young lady you meet take your time before spending like let ppl know you beyond your pockets,,, an don't change being a gentleman

well back off is the first thing you should do here. sounds very gentleman to have courted this lady. the beginning is a delicate process. maybe she's not ready to open up about herself in questioning. dating can feel a bit like an interrogation sometimes. people can have walls up/guards up from being hurt or simple just on the fence/unsure. i think you made the respectful effort. now wait on her return call and forget texting. real relationships should be made by actually talking to one another. but in the mean time. keep your options open. there are many women who would appreciate a gentleman. maybe she isn't the one.
God bless