Abstinence & Celibacy Support Group

The pressures of sex from peers, the media and culture can be overwhelming, but you are in total control of your body and celibacy is a choice that many are making. Find sanctuary with people who are choosing to abstain without fear of judgment.

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Withapurpose 03/14/2017

I decided to go on Celibacy because of my daughter. She was abducted by her mother and since then I struggle to see her. In order to see her I moved to the country she was abducted to since legally I found no answer in my own country. I feel very lonely and sometimes I felt that loneliness could be very damaging by allowing the wrong people in my life. Fortunately that awareness come sooner than any mistake. I've decided to be live free of sex and self indulgence in the hope I cleanse myself and in the hope all my energy to be dedicated to this life mission of being father to my daughter in very difficult circumstances. I hope I can find people to support me and that I can talk to. I've also openned a Group for Child abduction so please look for it and join if you need someone to talk to. I certainly do. Thank you

suet 03/16/2017

My heart goes out to you. I don’t know where you are, but the Lord can find you. Cry out to him.

Novema 08/27/2017

Your story is similar with me. My husband Abducted my 6 years old. Its very hard for me to cope and deal with this frustration. Al living alone and frustrate every day. I never seen my daughter for the last 1 year and 4 months. Am living in Canada but she is some where in Africa. My husband he took her with out my consent and promised me he will bring her back after one week of her vacation. I think he kept her some where with his family even my family they dont have access to see her. He was the most abusive man in my life. Because of his behaviors i escape my self to live some where for the safety reason.He took my property, he bulled me, hit me and finally he abducted my daughter. Am healing from my trauma but am still struggling at least to start my life. I am kind of scared even to start relationship. Some time when we are alone we need to fill our void feeling just to heal. I believe that i have to be emotional stable first.

I found that making my self busy on my passion helps me slowly to heal the broken heart. I have started writing my book. I dont know to what extent helps me to heal. Yesterday i went mall for shopping i couldn't contol my tear because my daughter she came to my mind, when i see her favorite stores like Disney store. I stopped my shopping and spoke to counselors.

I would suggest you to speak to councilor. I know it take so log to fix the broken heart. Emotional pain is the worest feeling in the world.

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