
Abstinence & Celibacy Support Group
The pressures of sex from peers, the media and culture can be overwhelming, but you are in total control of your body and celibacy is a choice that many are making. Find sanctuary with people who are choosing to abstain without fear of judgment.

Loved1
Need support. I came here after a breakup, we'd been back and forth and it seems to have happened again, we got back together and it seems like it was temporary. I did not feel comfortable being intimate with him at this time. Before we started dating, I told him I was celibate. He asked me to be his girlfriend before we had sex (I said yes and waited a while). I seem to have a hard time upholding boundaries in relationships. What I'm saying is I am thinking my desire to be celibate outside of this relationship seems to be switching to be celibate no matter what, and is giving me a reason to try to avoid this relationship I have had a hard time leaving. I originally saw this group and it occured to me, I was celibate before this relationship, now I'm not in it, this is a good idea for me. This after at first thinking I didn't qualify here. So here I am trying to be honest with you all about what I'm going through. I guess I was scared to say no to him, and thinking of you all gives me strength that I can honor myself. Thanks. Maybe I'm not the only one who has some issues with this.

deleted_user
There is a saying in the room of recovery, when someone has a hard time leaving a relationship alone. "There is no pain in letting go..the pain come when you're holding on and it's time to let go."

deleted_user
You are never alone on how you are feeling...no matter how strange it feels. There is someone else who feels the exact same way and is afraid to speak out. I hope you find the answers you are searching for :-)
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