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Don't feel ready to have sex

freedomwriter
freedomwriter

I been having problem with this for the past few years. Two of boyfriends end the relationship because I was not feeling ready for having sex. I had a traumatic experience when I was young. Some one touch my body in a wrong way and I think that's one of the causes why I can have sex. I feel really sad because my boyfriend want me too have sex and I don't, and he says his been waiting for 1 year for continue not having sex. I feel so alone. I don't have anyone to talk about this with. 

Barry
Barry
You are not alone in not wanting to have intercourse. I have never wanted it because of all the responsibilities and commitments I feel that go with it. If I had ever been in a relationship where I was being asked to do something I was not happy about I would just accept that we were not compatible in that respect. We could remain friends but not partners.
MemphisWH
MemphisWH
you are not alone, keep your boundaries, love yourself you are a great loving person.

It sadness me you have been hurt in the past, no one should have to endure that.

I hope you are doing well
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