Abstinence & Celibacy Support Group
The pressures of sex from peers, the media and culture can be overwhelming, but you are in total control of your body and celibacy is a choice that many are making. Find sanctuary with people who are choosing to abstain without fear of judgment.
Now what? I divorced my ex husband almost 3 years ago due to him having an affair with his cousin's wife and not even taking any precaution to protect him or me. My ex husband is the only man I have had sex with in my life. I married who I thought was the love of my life and expected him to be monogomus. Guess I was wrong! I haven't dated or even go anywhere to meet people to date. The pain is still overbearing at times wondering "how can he do this to me.?" He has been dating several women and even called last night asking if I wanted to have sex that he had condoms. What? Are you kidding me? No thanks! I just feel like I am a freak after hearing all the sex stories of people who sleep around. I guess I value my body, my thoughts and I pray everyday that I can find someone who will appreciate me. If not I will probably just stay celibate for life. Ugh:)
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I think you are right. Yopu value yourself and no one should ever take that away from you. remember that you are special. what is wrong with this world today is "anything goes" so be proud that you are strong. you r not a freak,. you are a jewel..... sex is a thing that is either god given and precious or it is something that has become just a passing event for people with no depth to their soul. you know what God has layed out in his rules so honor them, that doesn't make you a freak! I think the loose ones are the freaks.
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