At one time or annother, we are all faced with the pain of abandonment. Whether the person(s) who walked out on you was a parent, partner or friend, it hurts. This is a place of friendship and support.
A little backstory: this year, I was very busy with school assignments and projects and other personal matters. I had less frequent contact with a friend, who we'll call Dee. She and I were super close, and we had a deal to tell each other if we had problems with one another.
One day, she messages me and we talk for a while. In the middle of it, my group mates suddenly message me about something school-related, and I have to take care of it right away. When I come back to the chat with Dee a few hours later, I sent a reply to her original message.
For the next four days, she left my message on delivered. Anyone could see she was online. She shared on Facebook and messaged group chats that we were both a part of. After the four days, she seened my message.
The next day, she messaged me about a Science college thing. I know what I did next was immature, but I really was annoyed and confused at the time. I sent a short reply, and when she sent something back, I didn't reply either. I left it for five days and then I seened it too.
After that, the problem escalated until I saw her roll her eyes at me. I could handle her ignoring my huge performance and saying good luck to other performers but not me. I could handle her subtweeting. I could handle her not talking to me. But when she rolled her eyes at me? It was so disrespectful. I walked right up to her and confronted her about it. She denied everything. She wasn't mad, only sad. She wanted to be friends again, but she didn't want to bother me.
She said something to a mutual friend of ours that went something like "real friends don't ignore each other for long." It was... hypocritical. And it turns out that she left me on delivered because she "didn't want to causs a drama/fight," which is exactly what she caused by ignoring me.
Ever since then, we haven't talked. I'm okay with that. Today, though, I noticed that she blocked me on all of her social media accounts. I handle a Yuri on Ice fan account on Instagram, and she does too. I'm Viktor, she's Yuuri. I checked on her profile with a ghost account that no one knows about, and watched her story. She posted "why are all my Viktor pair accs assholes? Is this a predictment for my future relationships?"
I was very annoyed about that because SHE was the one who ruined the friendship first. If only she had talked to me, none of this would have haooened. She broke our deal and denied everything even though it was obvious. She even tried to guilt trip me by saying "I wish I wasn't born. All of my friendships come to an end. Nothing lasts forever." Well, that's a given with your attitude! She was so immature about the whole thing. I'm surprised she even HAS friends to begin with.
Anyway, I'm not going to do anything about it now. She can do what she wants. I'm just glad I don't have her negativity in my life anymore.