A-Sexuality Community Group
People that lack or desire to have sexual relationships with either sexes, they lack any libido, and find the thought repulsive, they can maintain a relationship but it is without sexual contact.
We as human beings need other human contact, to be touched to allow someone to rub your back , without the fear of the outcome of intercoares, Many abuse or rape victims like myself shut down , and its not healthy, in all the studies i have read , our body and brains need this touch. I have 3 cats, and thats where i get my affection from, they listen well, but the feed back is not that great.
Someone told me of these "Cuddle workshop parties" I'm writing from Toronto canada, so i don't know is you have groups like this in your area. But apparenty they are supperviied, you wear your pj's , theres a room with pillows on the floor, and the rulels are no kissing no sex or grinding , or kissing...all it is helping people getting used to the human touch again.
At this point i don't think i could do it, the thought of 10 people laying on a bunch of pillows just hugging and carressing eachother , sends me into a panic, but in a way i wish i had the courgage to try it, before its too late for me, and i turn to stone.
What do you people feel about it? If you want to look it up on the web, they are called "cuddle parties".
Hang in there!
susan
Someone told me of these "Cuddle workshop parties" I'm writing from Toronto canada, so i don't know is you have groups like this in your area. But apparenty they are supperviied, you wear your pj's , theres a room with pillows on the floor, and the rulels are no kissing no sex or grinding , or kissing...all it is helping people getting used to the human touch again.
At this point i don't think i could do it, the thought of 10 people laying on a bunch of pillows just hugging and carressing eachother , sends me into a panic, but in a way i wish i had the courgage to try it, before its too late for me, and i turn to stone.
What do you people feel about it? If you want to look it up on the web, they are called "cuddle parties".
Hang in there!
susan
i also think as we get older we need less. i was a set way for sooooo long and figured, okay i found my way, now the only thing i don't like is the complications emotionally and i don't like forgiving someone because i'm involved with that person in another way, its interfering. then i noticed when i had to take more meds for blood pressure the whole thing changed. i realize its probably the meds that are doing that, i've noticed meds doing things for the passed ten years actually. didn't expect it. but it is what it is.
i also reiterate, i think people in general have less sex than all of us imagine. in japan i think the average is 7 times per year. its not worth dying for and many people have medical issues as soon as mid life starts at 40.
Instead, why don't you join a dating website of some sort and explicity state your cuddling needs. Who know. Maybe you'll find some one suitable looking for the same exact thing?
Good luck!