I'm in the process of trying to keep all negativity out of my life. My son's dad is the biggest factor when it comes to negativity. Eventho I am oh so lonely, I need to keep minimal contact with him regardless we have a son together. So far I haven't talked or text him at all this week; only on a need-to basis. Usually, I give in & request his prescence....regardless that he is so toxic. Tho I feel so empty & I want to break down & cry....I still feel proud that I haven't called him just so I can have company.

Id rather be lonely than to be lonely AND taken for granted, unappreciated, used & being disrespected. A very powerful statement my boss told me some years ago. He said when you're in a relationship/marriage, make sure have a life of your own.

I had three people to list as references on employment applications, but when I googled one of them, I found out that he had a really bad criminal record, so I had to take him off my list. A few days later, I asked another person if he would be a reference, and he said yes, so I'm back up to three. Perhaps I should find one more person, just in case.

Wonderful things. More than I can count. Message me if you would care to know more.