Scruffy2014

About Me

I was married over 25 years to a high ranking officer in the air force. When my son was 18, I discovered that his father had been physically and sexually molesting him since he was 5. My son is now 45, my ex-husband is dead, I\'ve moved to another state, and I have an entirely new life. The memories and the pain never go away and my son is functional and successful and very badly damaged. We have no relationship: he blames me for not protecting him. I blame myself for not knowing.