You own the damage you have done

I am shocked in how my ex is treating my oldest.  Every day is a new drama.  There are no bounds to her self righteous attitude.
My sons have nothing to be ashamed of.
My sons have every right to be angry.
My sons have nothing to apologize to you for.
You cant control their feelings no more than I could control yours.
It is no longer my role to ensure they get along with you.
The more you push them the farther they move away from you.
You ignoring your children did not start after the divorce.
I am not responsible for your actions and you own the position you are now in with your children.
You tried to come out of this without any blame but its not working that way is it.  
I tried to warn you how this would affect your kids but you didn't want to hear it.  You said you would handle it... so handle it.
Ok daily rant over.  I want to say that to your face but cant stand the thought of looking at you.