yesterday outing
I went to see my son for about half and hour. .he told me all about his corse ....indigiounes law .......talk about a work load ......than I went to visit my dad ..he is getting worse ...he doesent have much breath he gets tires more easer ..can't walk as far ..and isent eating as much ...so when I got there he was realy tired so I asked him if he needed a nap and he said yes ..so I said why don't you take a nap and I will go shopping I just had to get a brush ...but we usualy go shopping ..to get him out ....walking ...and he usualy gets a few things ...but he dident want to go ......so that's what we did ..when I was finished I went back to his place ..and got him up ...and we went out to supper ......we had a good time he had a good time ...took his desert home homage apple pie ...but I notised even eating it was getting out of breath .............that I went to my medation class ..but my daughter had a bad headace so we just sat around and talked and it was a very interesting talk ...we talked till 9:30 .....
my my sister is in some kind of Denile or think is it is my fault my dad is getting worse because I don't take him out walking and out to supper enough ..she thinks that is why he is getting worse ...she told me that .........I just dident know what to say to her ..I take him out or visit him once a weak .....i am an hour away .........when we go to towen we drop in to visit him ...to ...she just needes someone to blame .........what he has is progressive ...it will only keep getting worse ....I do need to call him more often ...though ...in that she is right .....
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hi friend, you are very special and dear to your dad, and i'm so proud of you for keeping strong, and taking that special time, to spend time with him :) i know it's upsetting, that he hasn't been doing well, and that your sister said those things to you. You definitely take nice time, to spend with your dad, and have made some great times for him, to be able to enjoy with you all. i'm so happy you and your dad spent some time together :) i'm very sorry he's been unwell, and struggling a bit. i will certainly keep you all in my prayers, and sending healing energy, and our best well wishes :) You all are always in our thoughts, prayers, and in our hearts :) i hope your sister can apologize, and that she realizes, how you have been taking plenty of time ,to be with your dad, and you have all made some great days for him :) keep your chin up. We're with you, and so proud of you :) god bless you all. sending our love, and big caring hugs from us all :)
I'm sorry that your dad isn't doing well. It's tough to watch our parents' health decline. Hugs.
thankyou both ..