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Going through my second and last divorce. Just can't see getting married again. My current STBX is dangerous and will get worse as things continue not to go her way. And the lies she has told everyone. She said she wanted me in as much pain as possible and to ruin my life as I know it.
Go for it baby, because it WILL NOT HAPPEN. When we meet she was living in her dad's basement and I was doing well. She signed a pre nup and still after two months has not told her atty about it. So I had to file years of financial documents and send copies of the pre nup(twice). She claims she did not sign it. And claims I never allowed her to spend money. Well 600 pages of finanical documents proves her wrong on all accounts. She also called the local Sheriff a couple of times on me, which I found funny because she was breaking the mutual restrainting order for not to remove assets. But she said her atty told her she can take anything she wants. The sheriff and I walked outside and his comment was " does she really think your in the mafia? Yes officer she does. Dud he said I want in your doing better than I am."
I am looking forward to seeing her atty's reaction from the judge on that one.
Life is better now that she has moved out. The stress level has dropped big time. But still there have been concerns from friends and neighbors she will burn the house down. Hope I am not in it when she does.
Looking forward to living life, having fun and traveling more than before.
My first mistake was taking my stbx to Cozumel shortly after we started dating.
Love yourself first and be happy alone, and things will work out for the best.
Go for it baby, because it WILL NOT HAPPEN. When we meet she was living in her dad's basement and I was doing well. She signed a pre nup and still after two months has not told her atty about it. So I had to file years of financial documents and send copies of the pre nup(twice). She claims she did not sign it. And claims I never allowed her to spend money. Well 600 pages of finanical documents proves her wrong on all accounts. She also called the local Sheriff a couple of times on me, which I found funny because she was breaking the mutual restrainting order for not to remove assets. But she said her atty told her she can take anything she wants. The sheriff and I walked outside and his comment was " does she really think your in the mafia? Yes officer she does. Dud he said I want in your doing better than I am."
I am looking forward to seeing her atty's reaction from the judge on that one.
Life is better now that she has moved out. The stress level has dropped big time. But still there have been concerns from friends and neighbors she will burn the house down. Hope I am not in it when she does.
Looking forward to living life, having fun and traveling more than before.
My first mistake was taking my stbx to Cozumel shortly after we started dating.
Love yourself first and be happy alone, and things will work out for the best.
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As my settlement conference looms closer 1/15, I try to concentrate on the good times we had and not the bad. But my heart somehow still aches some knowing what my stbx and her kids have done to make it hurt. Some people play your heart strings to the fullest and that sucks. Need to take a trip away from it all when this is all over. And it will not end soon enough for me.
Good luck to you! You may want to invest in some smoke alarms it sounds like ;)