Wowzers, what a week!
Ok, so I moved on Sunday (Sept 1st). That was an interesting day due to many factors, the biggest was that a co-worker of my DH came to help and she instantly got 100% of the attention from DH's parents went to her. Even DH played second fiddle to her, which pissed DH, my brother and I off.
Then school started and stressed me the hell out with all the 'stand up and introduce yourself to the class' crap I had to do. To the point of DH and I fought on Thursday. We very rarely ever fight, about anything. Normally we calmly discuss things and come up with plans to avoid issue in the future. Well, this time I got really pissed off with this co-worker (she's suddenly having 'personal' issues and DH is apparently the only friend she has here and so now she's all over him) and blew up at DH over it. What really bothers me is part of these issues she's got are marital and her husband is also a co-worker of DH's. See, DH is the Kitchen Manager at a restaurant. The co-worker is a waitress and her husband is a supervisor/cook in the kitchen.
Between school/social stress and the co-worker, I had a meltdown and DH paid the price. It also didn't help that AF decided to show up 2 days after we moved. I've been kinda moody and easily upset all this weekend. Though I got DH to see that his bottling up his stress and other issues is making him a horror to deal with. I forced him to take a 'mental health day' (i.e. call in sick) on Friday and we stayed home and did relaxing things and talked through our issues.
I am on day 2 of Letrozole and I bought a clearblue digital OPK. It came with 20 tests, and I paid waaaay too much for it. Esp since I just found it for nearly half the price I paid for it at another store online. Oh well, you live and you learn. I'm hoping things get less confusing this cycle, but we'll see where I am at the end of the month!
I have read everyone's journals, but haven't had the frame of mind to comment on any of them. I am rooting for all you ladies still cycling and those who have gotten their BFPs already! Hope you all have a great week!
Then school started and stressed me the hell out with all the 'stand up and introduce yourself to the class' crap I had to do. To the point of DH and I fought on Thursday. We very rarely ever fight, about anything. Normally we calmly discuss things and come up with plans to avoid issue in the future. Well, this time I got really pissed off with this co-worker (she's suddenly having 'personal' issues and DH is apparently the only friend she has here and so now she's all over him) and blew up at DH over it. What really bothers me is part of these issues she's got are marital and her husband is also a co-worker of DH's. See, DH is the Kitchen Manager at a restaurant. The co-worker is a waitress and her husband is a supervisor/cook in the kitchen.
Between school/social stress and the co-worker, I had a meltdown and DH paid the price. It also didn't help that AF decided to show up 2 days after we moved. I've been kinda moody and easily upset all this weekend. Though I got DH to see that his bottling up his stress and other issues is making him a horror to deal with. I forced him to take a 'mental health day' (i.e. call in sick) on Friday and we stayed home and did relaxing things and talked through our issues.
I am on day 2 of Letrozole and I bought a clearblue digital OPK. It came with 20 tests, and I paid waaaay too much for it. Esp since I just found it for nearly half the price I paid for it at another store online. Oh well, you live and you learn. I'm hoping things get less confusing this cycle, but we'll see where I am at the end of the month!
I have read everyone's journals, but haven't had the frame of mind to comment on any of them. I am rooting for all you ladies still cycling and those who have gotten their BFPs already! Hope you all have a great week!
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I\'m glad you\'re all moved in!! Sorry about the drama with DH. I worked in the restaurant biz for (too) many years and its always a fucking train wreck behind the scenes...everyone is dating each other and this person is that one\'s dealer and those two saw you cheat on your wife at the bar after last call...and then you have the normal ones with normal lives like me and your husband who somehow still get dragged into the soap opera. I don\'t miss it. He\'s a stronger person than I am!
Anyway. Once you\'re unpacked and settled it\'ll be just about ovulation time. I think a baby would be a nice little housewarming gift :)
Glad u got moved in. Hope things settle down and hope the clearblue opks work well for you. Xoxo
Sorry your week was so stressful! Sending positive thoughts your way :)
Moving in itself can be super stressful and put everyone on edge, so glad you are done with that and can now focus on settling in and getting back into a normal routine. All of which will hopefully help to settle anything between you and hubby.
Good luck with this cycle, fingers crossed for you!!!
Thanks ladies. DH and I talked some more and we\'ve agreed to just drop the issue, things are being taken care of on his end (he spoke to the co-worker and she\'s backing off) and the more we talk about it, the more stressed I become so he wants to just let bygones be bygones.
kDeezy, it would be a birthday present too as my birthday is 2 days before my cycle should end so here\'s to hoping! :D
Now I just gotta hope these opks work! I\'m going to start them on cd12 (this coming sunday).