Worst time of my life
I heard people go through divorce before. I thought it wouldn't happen to me. My marriage is like every other marriage, it had ups and downs. but I didn't think we would get divorce. Well, it did happened to me.
these are our problems: and I couldn't believe that we get divorce over these problems. I thought we talk it out and we resolve the situations.
My complains:
you don't do anything at home. you don't clean, you don't cook ( my in-laws lived with us and the mother did everything in the house ), you play games on line all the time, if not play games online, you sleep. you play games to 2 to 4 am. Help your mom out with things in the house. when she goes out, it is until 2 to 4 am.
her answers:
my job is to take care of kids only. I don't clean. I like to play games.
her complains:
I don't like to go out with her friends. She wants to go out every week.
my answers:
I don't want to leave kids at home and treat her parents like babysitters. If we can take the kids, I will go anywhere. so I stayed home with the kids when she goes out. And I don't want to go out every week, I want to enjoy my family on the weekend.
Then, I found out she lied to me one night about who she said she went out with. I called her around 3am and she came home around 4am. Everything went down hill from there. She never said the true who she went out with.
We are in the process of divorce now. I want us to stayed together for the kids and go to counseling, but she wants divorce. divorce process is so long and it hurts so bad.
these are our problems: and I couldn't believe that we get divorce over these problems. I thought we talk it out and we resolve the situations.
My complains:
you don't do anything at home. you don't clean, you don't cook ( my in-laws lived with us and the mother did everything in the house ), you play games on line all the time, if not play games online, you sleep. you play games to 2 to 4 am. Help your mom out with things in the house. when she goes out, it is until 2 to 4 am.
her answers:
my job is to take care of kids only. I don't clean. I like to play games.
her complains:
I don't like to go out with her friends. She wants to go out every week.
my answers:
I don't want to leave kids at home and treat her parents like babysitters. If we can take the kids, I will go anywhere. so I stayed home with the kids when she goes out. And I don't want to go out every week, I want to enjoy my family on the weekend.
Then, I found out she lied to me one night about who she said she went out with. I called her around 3am and she came home around 4am. Everything went down hill from there. She never said the true who she went out with.
We are in the process of divorce now. I want us to stayed together for the kids and go to counseling, but she wants divorce. divorce process is so long and it hurts so bad.
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