Worst Anniversay ever!
On the 30th i no longer claim Ken's wife anything to me. She really hasn't been anyway but I had not wanted to be her friend on Face Book since Ken left us. I got on Face Book the 30th and what had she posted a picture of some man lying in a hospital bed hooked up to life support dying and above she writes it's been four years now and i miss you. I lost it. I was right back at Ken's ICU room. As he was dying, she was over him taking his picture in all the machines keeping him alive. At a glance I thought it was him. At the tim she was doing the picture, the kids were yelling at her Stop Stop, that is not how we want to remember our dad. Some people do want those type of pictures shown. But me I don't. I thought it was the most cruel yet to do to me his mom or his kids. Needless to say she is no longer a Friend on my Face Book and no love loss
Enough was enough!!!!!Love you Ken, sorry for such disresprect toward such a wonderful life you lead!!!!!!
Enough was enough!!!!!Love you Ken, sorry for such disresprect toward such a wonderful life you lead!!!!!!
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OMG...what disrespect to you, his children ...his memory.
How horrible for you to have to see that ...
My heart aches for you
Hugs, marylou
How horrible...she is really strange. That is so bizarre. I would unfriend her if you haven\'t already, this way you won\'t see any of her posts!!! Much love, Connie
OMG!!! To be so insensitive to the feelings of others is beyond belief. Even if she wanted or needed those pictures (for whatever reason) to publicize them is shameful. My heart breaks for you. I am glad you had the strength to un-friend her. I am still \"friends\" with Jason\'s girlfriend as she has things of Jason\'s that she promised me she would give me when she \"was ready\". It\'s almost a year and she hasn\'t \"gotten around to it\", although it took her 3 months after Jason died to announce (on facebook) that she was in a new relationship. There will be no love lost when I get Jason\'s things back and can un-friend her too.
Tightest of hugs, some people just don\'t think past themselves...
Merrilee
Oh, I am so sorry Sandi. How horrible and shocking, to see that on facebook. Sometimes, even though Dean has been gone for two years, his facebook profile picture shows up on my page. It doesn\'t really upset me, but I know that his wife tried to close out his facebook account and they havn\'t done it yet.
That is bad enough, but to see your son, lying in hospital like that is just awful. unfriending her is the kindest thing you could do for yourself...
(((((HUGS))))).....Julia
oh my ,,,, how horrid for you... my heart aches when people are so cruel...
love and peace to your heart..
I am SO sorry Sandi. I am hurting with you as that would have been shocking to see. Of course it took you right back to the ICU and Ken is so much more than all those tubes and machines. He is your beloved son and that is how you need to remember and honor him.
Loving care to a hurting heart that was really stomped on and for that I am truly sorry.
Gentle healing (((hugs)))
XO Joanie
Oh Sandi. You did the right thing to unfriend her. That was a particularly nasty thing for her to do, considering she was told not to take the photos. I can so relate. Lisa\'s husband still has no idea how much he hurt us - many times. Some people are just insensitive. It sounds like our kids married two of them!
I would unfriend Harvey and Beth but won\'t for Cevyn\'s sake. I try to avoid them as much as I can.
This rotten journey does not get a whole lot easier.
Love and caring hugs,
Marlene
Sandi, that is the worst. no one wants to remember the tubes just the love and the man he was. This may come back to bite her later. Children will not forget the bad stuff she has done.
I am sending you warm hugs to help warm your soul
Penny
That makes my heart ache too and I am so sorry you had to see that. No doubt, you made the right decision about her and fb. I hope you will find healing in the wonderful memories you have of Ken. May 2014 bring peace and healing for you as we all need. Hugs from your SOTH, Amber
Sandi, how awful for you! And how insensitive she is to you and Ken\'s children! I am so sorry. Tight hugs and love to you and your wonderful Ken, Linda