Worn out

It is rain outside and my son is being a pain.  My husband ran off to help his oldest son build something.  They rarely listen to me.  People would say to me, "make them listen!"  That doesn't work!  What I am I suspose to do?  Get a whip and beat them to they do as they say?  I'm tired of fighting people.  I don't have will anymore.  I'm not lazy.  It is just that many things don't matter to me.  I've lost the will to make a huge effort.