Working on rooms....

 I have been taking things over to the house that I will be staying at after we tell the kids.  Mainly kids bedroom stuff.  Trying to make it more inviting to them.  Want them to have rooms that they feel good about and feel like this is a home too.  At times I feel like they may be expecting this conversation at some point and may be relieved, but then I am worried that this will be coming from left field and completely CRUSH them.  People say that kids are pretty resilient and quick to recover.  I hope this is the case.  I want us to just have nice pleasant times together where they are not filled with bickering and arguing.  Please keep goo thoughts and the words of encouragement coming!!  Much appreciated.