Women who love too much

so it was a slow day at work I read Women Who Love Too Much, well the second half anyway....... Fantastic information and perfect timing for me. 
I am reaffirming my commitment to myself and fine tuning my approach to AH. Ive read this book before a while ago, but now I'm ready to go a bit deeper and do some of the harder work I guess I wasn't ready for before. 
my husband called once or twice during the work day and was rather passive aggressive and punishing me for standing up for myself last night. I used the techniques from my reading. I was a little apprehensive and a bit confused about how to act when I got home. But I figured it out.
after I'm home about an hour he says " am I being nice? I'm trying to be nice" 
the smallest little changes can make a difference.