why my life?

Just when I though my life was starting to slow down I get a slap in the face of reality! This past sunday my husband woke up and  had a large knot on side of his neck! Well I felt it and it was huge and hard. So I though he might of slept wrong or allergies I aint no doctor so I dont know! Well monday it was bothing him and he  couldnt swallow and called me while I was getting a pedicure with my girlfriends so I got done in a hurry and went and got him and took him to er. The ER  said to follow up with a ENT next day that its just a mass on his thyroid. Well today we went to ENT and its a nontoxic goiter :( Not common in men. So now we are faced with thyroid surgery in the near future. It sucks because I have been dealing with hypothyroid since I was 6 and thats one of the many reasons for my IF issues. So now that his is actting up and might be another reason why we arent pregnant.
 But being a parent is the farest thing from my mind. Between family and work issues I have enough to keep me busy. Please just say a prayer for us! I honestly dont think I can take any more!