Why is life unfair?
Yesterday the girl pregnant at work found out she's having a girl. Today my bestie had her 1st appt, confirmed she is 9 wks, everything is great and heard the HB. Lots of successful pregnancies on DS lately! So happy for everyone. Just suffering from some self pity today...I feel like everyone is getting their babies and not me. I would have been 30 weeks today...I miss the baby we could have had. I grew up getting what I want because I fucking work hard and it is so hard to accept that I can't do anything to improve out chances of having something so basic and normal- a family. Uhhh, crying in my car at work is not a good thing. Gotta get it together and put on my smiling face again.
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I asked my friend the same thing myself today. I wish I knew why life is so unfair sometimes. So sorry for the loss you\'ve had and I hope very soon your luck changes for the better and you get your BFP!!!
It never gets easier. I\'m so sorry. All I keep telling myself is that someday this will all be worth it. Some day I will be the best damn mommy in the world. That\'s the only thing that keeps me going. Hang in there my friend. XO
It makes no sense to me either. I don\'t expect life to be perfect or without challenges and struggles but I often wonder why IF had to be part of my life journey. Hang in there hun, I am praying that your journey will have a happy ending soon!!
((HUGS))
I understand how you feel. My due date was last Saturday. It was was difficult.
I am so very sorry, Orriginal. I know just how you feel. It\'s so hard to keep a happy face for our fertile friends, and not just wallow in our own pain. Praying for you!
So sorry you\'re feeling this way, but I get it. It isn\'t fair, and I like you have worked very hard for the things that I have, and this being so far out of my control really kicks me in the nuts. Hang in there girl, allow yourself to break down, and then know that you do have the strength to move forward!
So sorry you are feeling so low but sonetimes you just need to let those feelings come. You can\'t always put on a brave face. We are here for you for those low moments.
Thinking of you.
Such conflicting emotions, trying to be happy for our friends while hurting so badly. I am sorry you are hurting.
Thank you very much everyone for your thoughtfulness. I know you ladies are the ones I can turn to during these low moments. I wish we all lived closer to meet up. I can see one awesome girl\'s night going down- well two. Night out on the town getting drunk ass and then pj party with popcorn and girlie movies!
I\'m sorry for how you\'re feeling. It\'s all too familiar after 12 years of TTC. Keep your chin up and know your turn is coming!!! Hugs!