Why I shouldn\'t be with him

I feel ignored when you don’t respond to my text or calls.I feel unimportant when we can’t talk about issues or problems in our relationship.I feel alone and frustrated when you walk away from an argument.Your drinking habits do not coincide with my goal to cut down on drinking.I like to decide what the plans are for the night with my partner before hand. You rather be spontaneous and do things that you feel like doing at the moment. When you make plans in your head about what to do that night and don’t communicate with me, I feel left out and that what I want is not important.I like taking walks, cooking dinner, dancing, theatre, learning to play music; things that are not interesting to you. I feel this makes us incompatible.I often feel that I miss out on doing things I want to do because you don’t like doing them.I also feel that we do things that I don’t necessary like to do, because that is what you want to do. I wouldn’t mind this if you did things that I liked as well.I don’t feel that your financial situation will be remedied and this makes me anxious about what kind of future I would have if I married you.I want to have a nice house, and be able to share the responsibilities for keeping the house neat with my partner. I don’t feel that’s one of your priorities in life.