why does it all change in a second
i was in quite a good mood today,even found myself laughing at times.but then our daughter decided for some reason she wanted to unblock the bitch on facebook and then tell me really hurtfull things wich i asked her many times not to do.why does she feel the need to upset me in this way?i asked her the other day to please think about what she says and does for the time being,just until im feeling a bit stronger.shes now saying she is going t text him and say she wants to go and stay with them,im not the one whos walked out on her and started a new life and no matter how much im hurting im there for my kids,i do everything for her and i always have.
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Your daughter has issues and really needs to talk about it. You have to listen and get her to open up. Don\'t tell your side of the story listen to her. Tell her she is not alone. She\'s seems just angry and lashing out on you. Perhaps a school counsoler can help. Don\'t let her keep this bottled up. Tell her that you write a note book maybe buy her one and get her to write down. Tell her it gets the anger or whatever out of you.
We all know the truth but you can\'t tell your kids. Mine are all grown and hate The AH I married after I left their dad. They knew then. I had blinders on.
yes i think she is angry and as he has moved away im the one getting the full force of her anger.but itsmade me realise today that in turn im getting angry at him which can only be good as it stops me missing him.xx
Get angry, write down all the bad things, mine drank , stunk up the bed room, had and demanded all the house rules, I was his slave my opinion was never heard or offered to listen to. He said I could answer his questions either yes, or no and he always gave me the answer. Surpise it was in his favor. He never cooke d and cleaned. Phoned me up at work and said who\'s going to fix my dinner when I had to work late. Never, never did he fix me a meal unltil the last few months when I ddin\'t care.
i never realized how much I hated him. I saw him this weekend in his new convertible and his next conquest. I glarred hate at him. Even though I had sun glasses on he could read it.
I didn\'t think I could hate someone as much as I do. But I never loved someone so much. So love/hate has a balance.