Why do I think I failed as a wife?????

I guess the main reason I feel this way is because no matter how hard I tried or no matter what I did I couldn't make him happy. It seems that I would always do something to piss him off again and again no matter how what I did to try and avoid the conflict. I tried to be perfect...for just one day I wanted things to be peaceful in our house...I would go out of my way to make sure there was nothing for him to get mad about but then something would happen and he would go into a rage. Perhaps if I had been better at it he would have had no reason to get angry...he would have been happy...whatever I said was stupid in his eyes, seemed sometimes just the sound of my voice would set him off...I don't know...when I read back what I just wrote it does sound silly...I know I can't really make him happy if he is not happy himself!! I tried I really did...just wish things would have been different....