Why do I do this to myself?
After months of being alright, after a couple of weeks being happy about my new job, my new car and everything, I go into stbxh's facebook page... and see he's now living with another woman, a single mom.... and I feel like shit... why? It shouldn't mattter, I have my life now.... why do I still care?
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Because he is having with her what you should have had.
It sucks and it hurts.. I am sorry he disappointed you..
Soon will be your turn. Hugs
I guess.... when I thought I was pregnant he told me aboriton was legal in Sweden, and that he did not want to have kids...
On the other hand, maybe he can\'t support himself so he\'s having this woman support him the way I did.
Anyway, it doesn\'t matter anymore, although I still wish I had not seen that.
Hi Mimi, i\'m sorry to hear this, I have realized that even when you think you have been fine for a while it is never a good idea to look up and see what our exes are up to. It can\'t really bring you anything but sadness. Best thing is to forget about what he is doing as if he doesn\'t exist at all.
Besides, in your head you think that everything is great in his world, but it likely isn\'t.
Feel proud of your recent achievements and keep your head up :-)
Yeah, that wasn\'t a smart thing to do... and I\'m not planning to do it again :)
Big, big ((((hugs)))) dear friend!!! SO sorry you did this to yourself.
As Mark says be so proud of all you have achieved for yourself!
As sad as it makes you, you are definitely so much better off without him after the way he treated you!!
Yes, I know my life\'s better now. I have been feeling better, or just too much work to thing about anything else, I come home exahusted just wanting to crawl into bed, which I haven\'t felt in a while.
I\'m gonna be ok, thank you or your support.