why do i do it?
why did i talk to him last night?i was getting so much better while we had no contact and now i feel like ive gone backwards.i miss him again,i cant stand the thought of him with her.ive got to stop.we cant be friends its just too painful.
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Oh, do I know how you feel. My stbx gave me the \"we can be friends\" line when he left me, too. He\'s living with the OW (while still denying the affair). He has destroyed the trust, ripped my heart out, stomps on it repeatedly, stabbed me in the back, and destroyed our family. With friends like that, who needs enemies??? Friends? After all those years of marriage and children? Seriously?
(((HUGS))) to you. I\'m sorry you find yourself in a similar boat.
Feeling the pain and falling backwards every now and then is what teaches us and helps us make better choices in the future. It does suk really bad and I wish this wasn\'t how we had to learn but hang in there and work through it because eventually it will make a better life for you. :) R
thankyou for your comments.i know i will get there and some days i feel so strong,but ive got to stop the contact or i will never get there.