Why didnt it work?
Ok I know I shouldn't be doing this to myself but I cant help thinking....why didn't it work. I have tried to think of every little thing from the last cycle which I could do better??
I went hunting with my partner right after transfer last cycle and it was a very bumpy gravel road, maybe this was not good for embie"?? I will try harder to cut fatty foods and increase fruits and veg?
I took the whole week off work last time, I guess I will just carry on working this time, I really don't know what else, I may try manuka honey too, and have been thinking about acupuncture, although to be honest I didn't feel like I needed to be any more relaxed last time?
Any tips anyone can give me would be fantastic, I have nothing to do but think about it for the next month!
I went hunting with my partner right after transfer last cycle and it was a very bumpy gravel road, maybe this was not good for embie"?? I will try harder to cut fatty foods and increase fruits and veg?
I took the whole week off work last time, I guess I will just carry on working this time, I really don't know what else, I may try manuka honey too, and have been thinking about acupuncture, although to be honest I didn't feel like I needed to be any more relaxed last time?
Any tips anyone can give me would be fantastic, I have nothing to do but think about it for the next month!
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I\'m sure there was nothing you did wrong. Which sucks to hear in a way, because you want to know that there is something you did. That way you can not do that thing, and have a positive next time. I rack my brain for reasons too, and I\'m sure everyone else going through this does as well. I\'m sorry for that. I hate seeing, and knowing all of us have to go through all of these mental issues along with heartache. I\'m thinking of you.
You definitely didn\'t do anything wrong, but I\'m sure that\'s so annoying to hear. Thinking about you friend :)
First off don\'t blame yourself you didn\'t do anything wrong. Secondly don\'t waste your time or money on acupuncture... I did it two weeks ago thinking it would help relax me and all it did was make me feel annoyed b/c I felt like I couldn\'t move and the acupuncturist was creepy! Plus it hurt and felt uncomfortable! Spend your $ on going to the spa to relax yourself!
My mom told me that it didn\'t matter what I did, if the baby is meant to stick, it will stick. God knows what we are going through and He has a plan for us. We don\'t always understand the plan but that\'s part of it. I\'ve been where you are- the wondering and waiting. However, if I didn\'t have all of those failed months, I wouldn\'t have the son I have today. Yes, I love and would have loved any and all blessings but I can\'t imagine our lives without that smart, sweet, thoughtful, ornery little guy. And he\'s the best big brother to our other son and our to-be third son. You will get there but don\'t be your own worst enemy in the process.
Try not to beat yourself up about it. I know when my first round didn\'t work, I also wondered if it would ever work...but here I am after FET and 12 weeks. My nurse said to me, sometimes they just weren\'t meant to stick.... I didn\'t think my 2nd one had worked either and it did, so you just don\'t know. I live on a gravel road, sure that is fine!