Why cant people respect your space??
Since my miscarriages, I have changed. I have very little tolerance. I found that the more people I deal w/ on a regular basis brings unnecessary drama. So, I’ve taken a break and distance myself from a lot of people and I think it’s the best thing I’ve ever done for me at this time. But the only issue w/ that is, is that people take it personal if you’re “missing in action”. I think some people genuinely might miss my conversations, while others are no longer in my space to be noisy. W/ that said, I only wish people would respect my space and not take it personal. If someone calls, I’m always there. But forgive me, if I’m not a social butterfly right now.
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After thought: Alot is on my mind right now. No body ever told me that surving two misscarriages would be the hardest thing I ever done. The first, happened over two years ago. As I type in tears, it doesnt get any easier. Hurts like hell. I would do anything for this pain to go away. All I can say is but God...
Don\'t know why my comment posted 3 extra times..... SORRY :-(
Findingsrength1 I am glad that somebody can relate! I really needed to read your message this morning. Great way to start my day, and to affirm from experience its ok to take space. Thank you, thank you, thank you! Thats what keeps me going, is that when I come out of this storm I will have a testimony that hopefully can help someone else. My testimony will remind me where God has brought me from. Just waiting to get to that point. Im trying to glean from the storm a lesson. This too shall pass. Please continue to pray for me and I will pray for you. And I receive Jeremiah 29 by faith.
Findingsrength1:Praying all is well with you.... I truly understand how you feel about needing your space, some people just don\'t understand what you are going through so taking time for yourself is a very good thing. I did the same thing when I lost my baby boy last year it was very very hard, people didn\'t know what to say out there mouth (saying I need to get over it and move on, almost caught a case) but instead had to distance myself and get myself together. So please take your time talk to the wonderful man upstairs and I promise you he will ease the pain a little day by day.
Remember that you are a child of GOD and he has you covered under his blood, he will never leave you nor forsake you.
This storm seems so rough and hard right now but your testimony is going to be AWESOME at the end and you will share your test with someone that is going through the samething you went through.
Take care hun and I will contiune to pray with you and for you.
Jeremiah 29:11 (For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future)