Who the Fuck Did I Marry!?!?

Sitting here watching television. I am sure some of you heard about the television show, "Who the (Bleep) Did I Marry". These women married men who they loved and thought they knew. Shortly after married (rarely years) their husbands starts to change. Something would happen and they would find out the man they thought they knew is not who they thought he were.
Reminds me of my marriage. My husband started off good. When he developed schizophrenia things went down hill. First he would verbal attack then physically attack me. It was like this shit happened over night. Does this type of stuff build up or suddenly release?