who am I?

Well today is a ok day! I am having troube with who I am. Over the past month I have started wonder who I am. when Daniel and I  started seeing each other I knew he did not like tattoos. But people change over 19 years. I am not saying I want a lot of them, but I do want somemore. I have one and I love the fact that I have something that I can show off but it is on my lower back and it is not out for just anybody to see. Like a secret. But he don't want me to get anymore tattoos and he don't want me to ride my motorcycle with out him being with me and he don't want me to start vaping and I can't have a pet. If he is making all the rules for me, than who am I? What does my future hold, who am I going to be? uugghh..... I just don't know what to do. Do I try to me and take the chance of causing trouble or just say screw it?