Where is time?

I need to find some time, wish it could be bought or traded at times, haha! Meant to come and write some more yesterday and was up too late but never got in here.
Had some good conversation and a few laughs with my daughters last evening. I got to plunge the toilet (it stopped up the other day and wouldn't go down. Gross) again since the water finally went down a little bit. I am SO GLAD it went down. I heard my daughters talking and laughing in the other room; nobody offering help or asking if I needed it (not surprised!). I started giggling 'cause it hit me that one of these days, Mom won't be there to do the dirty work, but I'll probably hear about it! And then, I'll just remind them ... I told them after I got finished, so we shall see. One said I smell like poop. I didn't doubt it; said I wasn't real thrilled cleaning up after (the water overflowed), thinking about all the dried poop floating around my head. So yeah, last night was nasty. Waited to eat until AFTER I got done.
Got attorney letter yesterday too. I had ONE MORE PAYMENT to get to "zero" although some more to mediator. Why can't I have a little breathing space?! So anyway, hubby proposes he keeps house, says "no equity" but he is willing to hold the debt "forever" and he will keep "marital debt" (not sure WHAT he means by THAT, but I know better than to even in a dream think he's going to pay "my" debts!). And he wants copies of stuff. I thought about things; still thinking...don't know what was wrong with "my" proposal - that I pay down some debt save money. I'd have been gone already. Seems sensible, but I guess not the way "we" do things (since I really don't have a say). Sigh. Guess I will ask attorney to have them write it up formally so I could see what the proposal "really is".
It's warm today but too windy. Sorry to know it's not going to stay, but not too long, now! Got to catch up on some things.

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1Patriciann
1Patriciann

Wow - sharing good thoughts for life improving. We could sure use it getting better.

((hugs))
:-) Patricia