When it rains, it pours

Sometimes I really hate how everything seems to be going good for a while...and then all of a sudden one things happens and then it spirals into my life falling apart. This happens all the time. And it is always different stuff that goes wrong. I feel stupid for some of what happened to cause this current spiral. But my husband and I both got a ticket for leaving our two youngest children in the car and running into the store for a few items that were needed at home... This, of course also got a new CPS case going...and then two days after that we have our cat (17 years old and adopted from our friend that moved into assisted living up north) died, had to deal with two days of that. Currently, we are dealing with the complete anxiety of not knowing what is going to happen from the ticket...all we know is that we hope neither of us (and especially me) don't go to jail even though the maximum we could go is 3 months...but 3 months for me means we lose everything...Probably including our children. And on top of trying to get a lawyer we are also trying to enjoy the last couple of weeks that my 2nd oldest son is with us for his summer visit...

I just feel so stupid, and anxious...