When it rains it pours

Well today is not a good day for me. It just seems like when one thing goes wrong everything starts to go wrong. Well first off my boyfriend hasnt been working much because he has ben sick and has to have surgery on Wednesday. So i had to pick up where he has been lacking financially and it is very stressful. Also I learned that I may not be able to do my ET this month because i am at risk of hyperstimmulation. My doctor is saying that I may have to freeze my embryos and wait until next month. The problem is my insurance dont cover freezing embryos so now i have to call my docotrs office tomorrow and beg them to see if they can put me on a payment plan. If not I am screwed and this would have been all for nothing. Mind you my ER is on Wednesday. Also my boyfriend's nephew learned that he has a mass on his brain and he has to go to a specialist to see if it is cancer. Why is all this happening. I cant take it. I dont do well with things like this. I know it happens to everybody but i dont know how to deal with it. I dont know how to deal with it all at once. I just feel like when it rains it pours. Once one thing happen a million other things happen. God I know you dont put too much on a person that they can not handle but I am struggling with this.