When it rains it pours
Well today is not a good day for me. It just seems like when one thing goes wrong everything starts to go wrong. Well first off my boyfriend hasnt been working much because he has ben sick and has to have surgery on Wednesday. So i had to pick up where he has been lacking financially and it is very stressful. Also I learned that I may not be able to do my ET this month because i am at risk of hyperstimmulation. My doctor is saying that I may have to freeze my embryos and wait until next month. The problem is my insurance dont cover freezing embryos so now i have to call my docotrs office tomorrow and beg them to see if they can put me on a payment plan. If not I am screwed and this would have been all for nothing. Mind you my ER is on Wednesday. Also my boyfriend's nephew learned that he has a mass on his brain and he has to go to a specialist to see if it is cancer. Why is all this happening. I cant take it. I dont do well with things like this. I know it happens to everybody but i dont know how to deal with it. I dont know how to deal with it all at once. I just feel like when it rains it pours. Once one thing happen a million other things happen. God I know you dont put too much on a person that they can not handle but I am struggling with this.
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just take it one day at a time. you cant change what is happening. try not to think about everything at once. ive come to learn that ignorance is bliss by way of ignoring things.
OK doll that is all not great news and I am so sorry you are feeling overwhelmed right now. You are totally justified in your feelings. Your bf\'s surgery will go ok have faith and the ER stuff will happen when its supposed to. Although I am selfishly hoping it works out because I am supposed to be having it done that day too and I want you as my buddy : ) Just know everything happens for a reason and your time will come. Where there is a will there is a way and hang in there. DOnt fret over it (I know easier said than done for me) worrying yourself wont help. This will all make you stronger and things have a way of always working out somehow right? Take a few deep breaths and do something nice for yourself, you deserve it. As far as the nephew I will say a prayer and hold strong for him he needs everyone right now!! Imagine how he is feeling. GOD how sad I am so sorry and hope its not cancer.
Ry
Get a pen, get some paper.
Write down all the things that are happening.
Then write down what you can actually do about any of them.
Then be okay about the fact you have to put yourself first, this doesn\'t mean forgetting about others, but only prioritising so that soon you have something great to look forward to next month.
I\'m sure the RE office have dealt with similar financial situations as yours, and if they are difficult, call back and see if there\'s someone else to speak to, or go in in person and get the financial packet.
It is overwhelming and these are all important things to you, but one thing I know is that all the worry in the world is not going to change the outcomes.
Pray and hope, and cry when you can at a time of day when it won\'t disrupt the things you need to do, like in the shower at night or in the morning.
I\'m so sorry that you have so very much piled on your back and your mind.
It is going to be okay, no matter what happens, there is going to be a day ahead when you can look back on all of this from the perspective of having been through it and come out the other end okay.
God Bless you and give you strength not only to succeed but to do so calmly.
Jo xx
Dear friend I am so sorry you are going through this. If it helps, I realized a long time ago that the devil throws roadblocks in our ways when we are approaching our blessings. He wants us to let the roadblocks stop us from reaching the end. Your blessing is VERY near and so the devil\'s working extra hard. I\'m praying that he gets away.
My dear friend, I am so sorry that you are struggling right now! I really wish that there was more for me to do. Remember that God does give us what we need in the end, and he will pull you through. I am so happy that you are putting your trust in God. Keep it up! I really hope that you feel better soon.
I totally undrstand how sometimes it feels like you cannot carry anymore weight on your shoulders!! Keep the faith! I am thinking about you!!