what to do after 23 years

In March i discovered that my husband of 23 years was having an emotional affair with a coworker. He told me that he didnt think that he loved me anymore, moved out of our bedroom and told me that he wanted a divorce. I was devastated. I had no idea. For 6 weeks we tried to live together but seperate. I fell into a deep depression begging him to work on the marriage and love me again. My adult children insisted that I leave him for my own health, going so far as to move my belongings for me. We have lived apart now for 2 months. I suspect now that the affair is more than emotional. I am so hurt and broken. I cry every day. I dont see any hope for my future because I thought that we would be together forever. I am in therapy and have had sessions with my church pastor. None of these things seems to help ease the pain. How do I move forward? How do I get past the hurt?