What the Heck?

Apparently, I'm supposed to be a mind-reader now.  I went shopping tonite, particularly to pick up some stuff I noticed we were out of (which I regularly update on a list & have for years) & get some thanksgiving things.  So my husband asked if I picked up jelly.  I said no, it wasn't on the list (which is why we keep it on the fridge).  His reply (with a sneer):  "Well, you've got to think out of the box, dear!"
I mean, what the heck?  Yes, I saw the empty jam jar at the sink, but how do I know he hadn't picked up another one?  WHICH IS WHY WE HAVE A LIST!  Screw that...
Report card day today, but I'll go into that another time.