What a difference a day or two makes....

Feeling better about things here on the home front.  I went to our parent support group and found it to be helpful.  My husband wasn't there because he took T to his AA meeting on our side of town.  T got a pass to do so.  Unfortunately, it's a total of over 2 1/2 hours of driving, back and forth for one 1 1/2 hour meeting.  My husband didn't get back until 11PM.  A bit tired.  So I went to our support group alone and share with them our struggles.  Husband did tell them a bit himself so I don't feel like I was betraying him by sharing.  Others went through the same thing and suggested counseling.  I told them that I've been trying but to no avail.  Fortunately, our son's case worker said that instead of T going to intense outpatient treatment after being released that maybe we can have a family counselor come to our house twice a week to work with us.  It's something he's going to bring up at our exit meeting from the facility next week.  So that might work.  I like that idea.  Haven't shared it with my husband yet.