well it\'s done... for now

well to say the least.. it's been an interesting weekend for sure.... I had to go to Birth Mother's home ... she passed away on the 1st of January and I and my siblings had to sort through her belongings and get her things in order.  That's rough to do when you have no idea of where to start.  None of us knew her friends... and doing this... the ones that we have met are just flabbergasted that they didn't know that we existed... Wait that's not exactlty true... One of us existed.. but the other 3 were never talked about... Guess a separation with one child is easier to explain a woman leaving her child than leaving all 4 of them... It's been strange... and difficult for us to deal with ... the people that we did meet.. .thought the world of her... and were so kind to this lonely old woman... with the exception of the nasty housekeeper... (but that's another story., for another time.)    We had to do inventory of her home and depend on 2 of her very good friends and neighbors to tell us if everything was there or not... Well it's not all there... (hmmmmph)).... like we could tell... Strange.... nobody had a key cept for the (((housekeeper)))...(again.. another story for another day)... It sure is strange... I asked one of her very good friends how did finding out there were 4 rather than 1 child.. what were his thoughts on it... and he's just blown away... loves her dearly though and is trying with all his might to understand.. Poor fella... he won't... because we can't either... It's hard to think that the woman that birthed you and your sibs,,, just left, didn't come home.... and then was well treated and respected by so many people.  Bazarre is what it is...oh well so much for well kept secrets... they can and will do you in... We did not say much on the subject of abandonment... although we're all experts...lol.... but I felt so bad for her friends... they treated us soooo well.... You would have thought they were family... but the good news is... I heard some good things... (suprise, suprise) about her... and we all kinda feel like we know a different person than we did when we got there... I still feel really bad for the 2 lads that are her neighbors and that treated her so well... they are dazed and confused with everything regarding her... oh well... and that's it for today... write more later.. tomorrow