Wednesday-May 28th,2008

I want everyone to know that I am not against women who stay home.But if you live in seattle now and all of themajor cities it just isnt possible anymore.It may interest everyone to know that the average salary in New York for a man who has only a high school education is 25,000.00.Some are lucky to even make 19,000.00! And for all of you young guys..Please do us all a favor and learn to grow up! Hanging out will not get you a good job here and it isnt kosher is you mind the expression to hang out a long time here.I saw guys here that are hanging out in the malls and bars.Why? Why are these people just so important to you? Where will you be when there will be a sudden emergency and you have to get the money right away? You must learn this important lesson.Friends do not last a lifetime.It is a myth that they do.I was friends from 1954 to 1958 with a girl named Eileen Dolan.She was my best friend in St.Annes.Mr and Mrs.Dolan had 8 children.But in 1957-Mr.Dolan got a transfer to South Carolina and the whole family had to move.There were no support groups then.There was no discussion of this trauma.I lost my best friend in 1957 and noone was around to help me with this transition.All I can say is this.Eileens family had it hard in the 1950s with this move.She wrote me a few times and in 1968-she came up for a visit.I saw her 10 years later and she stayed at the house.But after that..well it was the 1960s and things were happening.I heard from her again in 1978 and that was all.I havent heard from her again.I do not know where the whole family is.That is all I am going to say.But guys..please friends do not last.You have to realize that you will live to see some fantastic changes.But you must learn that friends do fade away,some move away and like with Eileen..we just grew apart.And always remember the good times.But good times wont help you in your grieve.Noone is.Noone knows my pain.Noone knows that I cry everyday.I am 60 now and I lost just about everyone that has mattered to me.I am alone.And I do miss Frank.I miss discussing The Yankees.And I miss the way that my brother would advise me.But the so called friends in NY and Seattle have abandoned me since I am going through all of these problems.This is what people do.If I had my life to live again,I would be an Heiress like Paris Hilton,have Pamela Sue Andersons body and Katie Courics intelligence.So guys..please learn this important lesson.People leave.You must learn to be self-reliant.That is all.lCheerio.