Wedding Over
Well the wedding is over. My house is quiet once again. There was so much drama and angst in the last two weeks. I just don't know that I want to go over it all. Between all the problems her parents caused and them getting to be at stuff they were not supposed to be, to not being at the actual ceremony, to the small ceremony I was at that was supposed to resemble a real wedding for me that failed miserably, to the awesome neighbors who came through and were there for my son when I couldn't be and just sent by God to truly bless my life, to my mother son dance, where my son sang to me and nothing could have been better. To the wonderful friends who came from across the country to support my son and supported me to when people got snappish and busy and I felt so left out of things. So many joys and sorrows all in the last two weeks. Too much. I could write a book. No time as I am back at work full time, plus just this little bit has put me back to tears and I have cried so much this last bit I really just need to be done with it for a while. If I sit and type all that has happened I know I will be a complete mess for hours. But two days ago a very bumpy journey that started Jan 1, 2014 came to an end and a new beginning started for my son and his new wife. I hope they can now just be together and be happy and I pray they will still include me frequently in their lives.
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congrats to the happy couple. sorry it wasn\'t done the way you wanted but the wedding is supposed to be what the couple wants...and sometimes that means compromises for both sides but in the end it is the bride that usually gets her way.
Weddings are always full of drama! I\'m just happy you got through it and your kid can start his new life :) Believe me, you will be included!!! We all need our mama\'s!
I am happy for your son and also for you.You\'ve both gone thru so much with his in-laws.It must be a relief for it to be over.I hope his in-laws will let them live their lives in peace.cherish the memories made and look foward to new ones.I hope they keep you included often...youve been a great support to them both thru all this..
you had some realy good times ..during those two weaks ..with your son and some of your friends who came through for you ....concentrate on those ..events and the joy and love that came out of them and all the negative things that happened ..just know that it happened but know that it wasent what was important and let it slip into the past ware it belongs let it get lost in the past ...so any time you feel some thing ..negative comming up ....think of a positive thing that happened and concentrated on that ..that will help you ...it takes pratice ..but you will see the diferance .........you need to elimeatate the negitive in your life and infuse the positive .....the dark can\'t live in the light ......I am happy you had a good experance with your son ....take care of your self and be kind to your self ..let go of the negative ...embrace the positive ...celeberate the positive ....God bless ...