Weakening and need advice
10Dec12 2:20pm
As the season progresses, I can't help but think of my MIL a LOT. She's been such a big part of my life during this time for 13 years. I'm so sad things are still angry and strained.
Do you think I should send her a card and/or the gifts I got her? Or would she take that as a sign of weakening? I hate having this hardness in my heart. I don't want it. But last email she sent, she sent to my hubby implying I"m a drug addict and suicidal. What can I do with that?
So sad... Nibs
As the season progresses, I can't help but think of my MIL a LOT. She's been such a big part of my life during this time for 13 years. I'm so sad things are still angry and strained.
Do you think I should send her a card and/or the gifts I got her? Or would she take that as a sign of weakening? I hate having this hardness in my heart. I don't want it. But last email she sent, she sent to my hubby implying I"m a drug addict and suicidal. What can I do with that?
So sad... Nibs
Replies
NIbs, So sorry you are still in that positions. Sometimes you have to listen to your heart and be the bigger/better person. All you can do is keep trying. If it doesn\'t work out. At least you\'ll know in your heart you did you best. Brian
Don\'t let your heart be hardened. You are who you are and continue to be the warm caring & loving person we know you are. Send the card & gifts and just sign it all \"our love.\"
Remember you will come through this a stronger & wiser woman.